AND this is what my face looks like when shiesty people try to shove me on back fridays.(when i use to go ) NOW...I AVOID BLACK FRIDAYS!! its the best yet worst time to do your Christmas shopping .People are the rudest and i refuse to tolerate it. So i avoid it and plus i work on black fridays (most of the times,over the years)
BUT during times around thanksgiving im reminded of whats really important in life. Esp around thanksgiving when your friends always ask "so what do you want for Christmas?" My answers the same every year... NOTHING. Its more of a want then need kind of thing. I don't need it, but i do want it. Two totally different things. Everything i need i have, i don't need anything more than that. Materialistic things only last for so long and don't give me the fill that i long more.
I HATE THE HOLIDAYS..you would too if you were me. The same time around this time of the year a few years ago my frist love of 6yrs (met him in middle school,high school sweetheart..and first yr of college) and i took a break. The break lasted for nearly a month till three days before christmas he tells me "i've been thinking about our relationship and i think we should stay where were at? " In my mind i just kept thinking, wth does that mean! So i questioned him and he says "not together" my heart sank to the pit of my stomach and i was devestated. You ever cried so hard that you couldn't breathe ? And the only breathing you could do was through your mouth? Every time i thought of him i cried. Kept thinking what i did wrong for it to end. I went through months trying to get him back. But his say was final and he gave me no option to say what i wanted to say
2 years and some change later i still hate the holidays. I remember everything about it. What i went through, how i felt as each holiday passed. I use to hate his guts...but now i'm glad that he broke up with me. He did me a favor by doing so. Instead of going no where with him i pushed myself to pursue my own dreams. Ones that didn't revolve around him. I finally felt free again.
HUGE part of the reason why I'm so picky with who i let in my life and who i love. Because i wear my heart on my sleeve and fall deep easily. I'm not a half assed type of girl. If I'm in it i give all of me not just a percentage. I'm the type that cares too much and it shows. I've dated here and there but not really. Nothing ever serious. My excuse is that i never have time. But i believe when the right one comes along..i have all the time in the world :)
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